
The International Writers Magazine: Speak and the world will
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The
Language Barrier
Richard Cooper |
'They
say first impressions are everything...'
|
Until
I travelled I did not fully appreciate how your accent could effect
so many things. George Bernard Shaw famously stated in 'Pygmalion' in
1912 that "It is impossible for an Englishman to open his mouth
without making someone hate or despise him". Take for example the
American accent. It has been demonstrated many times on my travels that
Canadians wear a maple leaf on their backpacks to demonstrate their
origins. Quite simply I and many others cannot distinguish between the
two accents. As a result the Canadians feel that they get better service
and treatment just by wearing the flag of Canada. This remarkably has
carried over to Americans that I have encountered. They admit that they
too have sewed on the badge in an attempt to receive better treatment
much to the bemusement of the Canadians. This is not just about international
prejudice. It is when you are away from home and meet hoards of fellow
English people that you realise the problem is even worse in your home
country. It is simply amplified abroad.
They say first impressions are everything. Well it is certainly demonstrated
by the first words we speak. Like it or not we have been brought up
with misconceptions of people just by the way we talk. There are the
obvious and well known examples. All people with a scouse accent must
have a good sense of humour and be up to no good. All people with a
geordie accent know how to have a good time but are from the lower class
society. All southerners are cocky and think they are the best. All
cockneys are involved in black market activity and are wide boys. The
list goes on. It is something so inherent within our culture that it
is difficult to avoid. Quite simply there is more than a north-south
divide.
A friend from Liverpool once went to live in Oxford. He had never lived
in the South before. He went for numerous interviews but despite his
good qualifications failed to convince the employers that he was right
for the job. The next week he disguised his voice in the poshest tone
he could. Two interviews later he had a job. To say his new employers
were shocked when they heard his natural Liverpudlian tone the next
day would be an understatement. Although this is a problem in Britain
it happens all over the world. Different regional accents mean different
things to different people.
Is it right to have prejudiced views just from the way people speak?
Using previous examples of what people have said I could define the
following based on common misconceptions. All Japanese people stand
in big groups and take photos. All Swedish people are very sexually
active. All Germans have no sense of humour and are arrogant. All Americans
are loud and dominating. All English people are uptight and reserved.
The list goes on. My travels in the main have proved this to be incorrect.
The funniest people I have met have been the Germans. Some of the most
articulate and down to earth people have been American. Although it
is difficult to judge a nation on a minority of travellers, it is a
start in taking away the barriers that exist. A Dutch girl once said
to me "What is wrong with generalising people, if most people you
meet are like that then what's wrong with stereotyping them?'. I have
to admit I had this attitude at the start and I am not proud of it.
Now I actively detach my pre-determined misconceptions and meet everyone
with an open mind. I have realised that one of my weaknesses was that
I proving that people were different from their stereotype. It is easy
to play to these stereotypes simply by the way people speak. I have
been guilty before but now I am wising up to the fact that everyone
is unique in their own way. Where you come from does shape you but that
what makes travelling and meeting people from different countries so
interesting.
© Rich Cooper may 10th 2004
uk_coops@hotmail.com
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