A REAL GIFT TO GIVE
... dignity is not absent in poverty, just trapped beneath its hard surface.
Zambian Memory flies,
in search of moisture, settled on their perspiring heads, infected eyes
and cracked lips. I was in the Children's Nutrition Center in Monze, Zambia
and these children were diseased. Each suffered the swollen joints and
crusted skin of malnutrition and were admitted in a final, desperate attempt
to save them from starving to death. Their mothers held them closely,
each woman wearing the African sarong, two yards of patterned cotton wrapped
around the torso, descending downwards to leathery ankles, bare callused
feet and ugly spread toes.
This was my first trip to Africa. I am one of those people that carries
a vague list in my mind of ambitions, passions and dreams, all deferred
to some indefinite time and mentally filed under "one day I'll...".
This visit to my missionary aunt in Zambia was on that list, along with
traveling down the Amazon, running a marathon, and learning the tango
in Argentina. I arrived in Monze for three weeks with grand illusions
of helping, teaching, and making a difference. The children at the nutrition
center who leave will be temporarily nourished, hydrated and vaccinated.
No more than one third of them will survive another year. Their mothers
will be given bags of maize seeds to grow food. The tragic truth is that
half the seeds will not cultivate in the drought conditions of their home
villages. Thereafter, half the crop will be stolen before ripening. Whatever
remains will be converted into the monotonous corn gruel that is the tasteless
staple of the local diet.
This is the cycle of despair that is Africa. The mystique of Africa is
utterly depressing at ground level, where statistics become people. Small
bloated bellies become young personalities with smiles and affection to
share. In these parts, the poorest of the poor expire anonymously and
with alarming frequency. The startling bleakness of local reality left
me feeling like I had little to contribute. My carefully cultivated white-collar
keyboard skills were hopelessly optimistic and utterly useless here. Throughout
my first week, I struggled for an adequate response to the plight that
surrounded me. If only I could do something, but what? Give money? Labor?
In my second week, suddenly inspired, I returned to the nutrition center
on my own personal mission. A nurse provided the inspiration, telling
me that "All many of these women have left is hope for their children
and the fading memories of them when they are gone." The one local
merchant that served as a gas station, food shop, butcher, photo processor,
tailor and agricultural supply depot supplied the logistical assistance.
This was it! Insight and a path forward instantaneously united. Back I
went again, during my final week, to gather the group of mothers and children
one last time in the communal kitchen. Shielded from the sun by a large,
thatched, sloping roof, we clustered around the raised cooking fire.
The humidity, the smoldering charcoal, the tangy body odor, the flies,
and the stench of previous meals all intermingled here. I moved quickly
back and forth, pausing, choosing and presenting my gift to each mother.
Some looked puzzled, but two had immediately recognized what they were
holding. The kitchen suddenly filled with scattered flies and excited
chatter. The energized mothers shrieked at each other and their gifts,
startling the children from their diseased slumbers. Each cradled her
gift carefully, comparing without jealousy. Everyone obviously pleased
with their own while inspecting each other's with genuine admiration.
So many travelers take pictures while so few take the time to give them.
That was my gift. I offered photographs to each mother with child, to
sustain and share their memories back at their villages. Paradoxically,
it may be I who will never forget them. I vividly recall the arranging
of hair, straightening of sarongs, and finally the approval by others
as each woman prepared for her portrait. All this was quickly followed
in sequence by straightening of shoulders and pride of expression as the
shutter clicked. Stripped away in those moments were all my preconceptions
of the abject poor, replaced by the realization that dignity is not absent
in poverty, just trapped beneath its hard surface.
© Keven Mulcahy
Kevin' and Diane's Travel Writing Address
We are at home in Kansas City at the moment. Our next trip is to spend
two weeks in Chile in April, touring the vineyards around Santiago.
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