The International Writers Magazine: Lifestyles
is a Verb
...now its time to start living like a VERB
I absolutely love
the word "verve".
Vigor, Spirit, Style, denoting special talent in writing. I came across
the word a few years ago for the first time when a very dear friend
of mine attended the funeral of one of the nameless people who were
on the flight that was turned into a weapon of attack against the Pentagon
on September 11. This lady, who had worked for the National Geographic
for years, was taking a group of young schoolchildren on a cultural
trip. Just another one of those tragic stories that never surfaced to
the level of press attention. Just another sad loss of a brave women
and some little children. Anyway, I guess at her funeral, most of the
Geographic staff were there, and one person got up and said "It's
typical of Jane (not real name) that she would bow out this way in order
not to have to deal with her 40th birthday! She was a woman with passion
Verve. A word that is one I'd like to have read at my funeral. That
along with compassion, gutsy, loving, passionate, classy, stylist, truthful
and curious. Verve is actually defined by the dictionary as a noun,
but I feel it is a verb. It is an action word that finds its expression
in acting out the qualities it embodies....vigour, spirit and style.
In my life so far, I have focused on being nouns...mother, wife, friend,
worker, helper and now its time to start living like a VERB.
The second half of my life, as I embark on my journey around the world
will be one heavy on the action words, those descriptions of myself
that tell something of my energy, enthusiasm and excitement about the
vitality of the precious gift of life...not the static, bounded descriptions
of what my inner organizer says a woman or wife or mother embodies.
I am active. I am like the wind. There is no moment that I am only a
noun. I am a verb. A new website
www.exinthecity.com is my latest venture - helping women move from
"EX" to EXtraordinary! as they redefine their lives after
the breakup of a relationship. Share your journey ~ come visit!
© Magaret Manning June 2004
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